Free Evaluation Tool on Whether You Are in a Destructive Relationship and a Free E-book from Jerry Bridges



Thanks to Focus on the Family, I came upon the following that may be a help to you in your relationships.  Each one of us deals with difficult people, some more so than others.  Hopefully, as we interact with others, we are not that difficult person.  One way to find out if you are in what Leslie Vernick calls an emotionally destructive relationship is by means of this test or evaluation tool. 

Are you in an emotionally destructive relationship – test/evaluation tool

A program from Focus on the Family with Leslie Vernick is available here: 
Finding Freedom from Destructive Relationships, (Pt. 1 of 2)

Finding Freedom from Destructive Relationships, (Pt. 2 of 2)

Please note that efforts to get to the Focus programs above resulted in errors both internally and from this link.  If you have a problem, please come back and try again.  

You might ask, why should I care what Leslie Vernick has to say on this? Who in the world is Leslie Vernick?
As posted on Amazon, “Leslie Vernick is a licensed Christian counselor with over 25 years experience helping individuals, couples, and families. In addition to consulting with local churches and pastors, Leslie has ministered internationally to church leaders in numerous countries. She is the author of several books, including How to Act Right When Your Spouse Acts Wrong and The Emotionally Destructive Relationship. Leslie and her husband, Howard, have two grown children and live in Pennsylvania.”

The Emotionally Destructive Relationship: Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It [Paperback] $10.98 


The Emotionally Destructive Relationship [Kindle Edition] $9.39

Free Jerry Bridges e-book on living in community with one another as the body of Christ:

True Community: The Biblical Practice of Koinonia [Kindle Edition] Free for a limited time (save $14.99 over the paperback/$9.99 usual e-book price)





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